There’s something about misplaced self esteem that bothers me. I guess I project my own issues on other people and hope they follow suite. It just seems lately I have seen a lot of folks (mostly women) that are a little TOO comfortable with their bodies. Yes, it makes me feel like a jerk to think like this because I firmly believe everyone is wonderful and we should all be proud of who we are. I certainly would never say anything to anyone and inside I might even think “you go girl.” Yet, some of these people have to have friends and family that care about them enough to tell them the look isn't working. So seriously, if you have rolls of fat, maybe the low rider jeans and the half spaghetti strapped top isn’t the right look for you. It is mean to say, but darn it, life is mean. I’m not buffed, but I also know enough not to walk around in a muscle shirt.